Write Memories
An article by Kay Hedges Tuesday, September 20th, 2011
In this world of high technology and instant information, it is easy to forget that it wasn’t always there. As little as twenty years ago, cell phones were a dream. Fifty years ago computers were still on the drawing board. Whole generations of people will be growing up with no idea what it might have been like. This is a field rich with possibilities for senior citizens who have interesting stories to tell and share.
Memoir writing is not as difficult as it would seem. Mostly, it just takes a desire to remember details of a childhood without all the gadgets we have today.
Begin your memoir by brainstorming all the life events you can remember that were either very important to you in a positive way or very important to you in a negative way. Talk to other members of your family to get ideas, to help you remember events from when you were small, and to help fill in the details that might have been forgotten.
There is no right or wrong time to start writing about your life. There is only now. If you are comfortable with writing on your computer, you can start directly into a Word or text document. If you don’t want to do that, go to the store and purchase some type of spiral bound notebook. You will be carrying this with you and making your notes as you think of them. A combination of these is probably going to work best.
Whichever you choose, just pick a year and start making notes of all the things that happened to you that year. Label each page with a month and work through the whole year.
When you are ready to write, select the event, or series of related events, that seems most interesting to you. Brainstorm again but in more detail, trying to recall names, places, descriptions, voices, conversations, things, and all the other details that will make this an interesting account.
Ask yourself these questions – how much was food, what kind of car did my parents have, what was the politics, where did my parents work, what was my school like, what did I play, what siblings did I have, – and jot down notes for each month.
Work at this note-taking stage for a few days, until you feel you’ve got it all down on paper.
You will be surprised to see that even more details begin to appear once you start to write. For your first draft, write quickly to get all your ideas down from beginning to end. Don’t worry about editing. Before you revise, share your first draft with someone in the family. Consider their response, but go with what feels right to you. Rewrite, and then start editing as needed.
Good narratives are about everyday things, but they are interesting; sometimes just as interesting to read as a good novel. But remember, this chronicle is supposed to be true, so be careful not to exaggerate or embellish the truth.
Once you have finished one year, begin on another year. You might want to write various versions of each year by focusing on different topics. It is your story. The only limit is your imagination.
Then begin to write.
The list below should help trigger thoughts of other events in your life.
Go to Wikipedia and change the year to whatever one you want. You will find lots of information that will trigger your memory.
Or join here Newspaper Archive and have access to newspapers.
Your local librarian is also a very helpful resource for archived documents.
Other references are: History Orb or Infoplease.
Definition
A memoir is a piece of autobiographical writing, usually shorter in nature than a comprehensive autobiography; a chronicle of some event in your life. It often tries to capture certain highlights or meaningful moments in one’s past, including a contemplation of the event meaning during the chronicle writing process.
The account may be more emotional and concerned with capturing particular scenes, or a series of events, rather than documenting every fact of a person’s life.
Autobiographical Genres
auto + bio + graph = self + life + writing (from the Greek)
A genre is a literary form. There are many genres that are autobiographical in nature. In other words, the writer writes about his or her own life. Here are some of the various genres that are considered to be autobiographical.
Characteristics
or why you continue to remember them
of why and how the resolution is significant in your life
Formal autobiographies tend to encompass the writer’s entire life span, focusing on the development of his/her personality. This chronicle often deals exclusively with the writer’s careers rather than their private life. Many older accounts contain little or no information about the writer and are almost entirely concerned with other people.
Modern expectations have changed this, even for heads of government. Like most autobiographies, memoirs are generally written from the first person point of view and are structured differently. The chronological scope is determined by the work’s context and is more focused and flexible.
Contemporary practices of writing these chronicles for recreational, family or therapeutic purposes are sometimes referred to as legacy writing or personal history.
Various types of memoirs
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